Holding up. Head's a bit crazy at the moment; work, life, love, money, etc. all adding stress to my life and it's getting too much. Struggling on, though, got to for my girl. How's the love life your side?

Moloooo, my man, how you doing?

What? I'm all sorts of confused, lulz.

Nah, not yet. I really don't know what to do. I have a chance to move on finally and yet there's still some obstacle in the way. Gah.

Heeey, man, how're you doing?

Haha that's the spirit! You'll find a gal to cherish, I have no doubt about that.

Hey dude,

Sorry, wasn't at my computer at all yesterday. Yeah man, I hope your Christmas went well too. I posted in the topic about what happened. I think I may have been off, but I explain in the topic. That really sucks man, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you get at least 1 more chance to get to see her. It'll all work out for you though. As generic of a message as that is, I'm semi-proof of the fact that feelings do pass over time and you'll find someone you want nothing more than to be with. Just don't let it get to you and let it work itself out. Keep putting yourself out there and don't be afraid to ask the girl to wherever. One date doesn't mean relationship, which is why the call it dating lol.

Best of luck to you man and keep me informed of what happens!

Mine's pretty meh. Got some nice clothes, aftershave, chocolate, etc. but I'm missing the two things I desperately want - my baby girl and a girlfriend. I just feel so crap. Luckily for me, my brother also bought me a copious amount of Jack Daniels so I'm all set for this evening. I think a night of drunken Black Ops sounds good, aye? : )

As for the lass, ignore all other advice I've given, Facebook her or find her in the store and just bluntly tell her you wish to spread her legs and do a little magic. Works a treat.

I'm in exactly the same boat, I was just being friendly.

Would it be rude of me to enquire why you're gutted?

Merry christmas, buddy, hope you're having a good day :3

Oof, that's rough, man, sorry to hear that. You just gotta try and remain positive though - yeah you lost two girls at once but that means there's another door opening somewhere and it's up to you whether you take a step through it or not. Ask that girl about Tron, see what happens and, if worst comes to worst, at least you have a new friend.

As for me, well, I'm leaving. There really isn't anything going for me. I hate my job, I hate this house, I have 0 friends and I have no social life at all - its with this in mind that I've decided to leave the area and move far away (well, somewhere in the UK) and settle down there. I can always travel up/down to see my daughter - but as it stands, I'm losing the case to get access to her. I fear that if I stay here any longer than another year, I'll end up killing myself. I'm saving money and it's 'Bye bye, Birmingham...' - sounds ******ed.

Dude, just try and remain hopeful, yeah? Even if things don't go any further than friendship with the first girl, at least you know you have a new friend out of this. As for the second, well, take it slow. Don't wanna rush into things.

You're not pathetic, you're human. I used to have trouble approaching girls - and still do - so don't feel like you're doing something wrong. You're just like every other man out there, dude, trust.

In all honesty, I'm thinking of cutting her out my life. As much as I enjoy being 'friends' she really is taking me for a ride in regards to allowing me to see my daughter. So much so, I've been researching court preceedings, etc. in hope of gaining private access to her. Then I don't have to talk to the mother at all and I get to spend time with my baby girl. Just hoped it would never come to this.

I envy you. I did crap in my exams and, as such, never had the chance to go to uni. Enjoy it while you can, mate. As for the advice thread, don't worry about it. I consider you a good friend on here and am always willing to help you out. Hell, even if my love life is FUBR, I can help keep others active.

Yeah, I completely agree with you. I think I literally need a step-by-step guide on what to say really. Pathetic.

Ah yeah I know a bit about that. Girls I've liked in the past - they treat me like ****, in terms of no reciprocating any niceness, but when they show me some attention I want to be with them all over again. What I've basically done now is just switch myself off to them, like blocking them on MSN, hiding them on Facebook and all that. I'm taking a more "bad ***" outlook on the front of birds who just seem to use me.
But if she's telling you that she still has feelings then that must be really hard on you. I'm sorry about that. I don't know what I could say constructively.

Other than that I'm just in my final year of uni, which is a piece of **** really. How about you?

Yeah, been reading up on that situation with the lass; like I said, man, you just gotta go for it and take the dive. You never know, it could be the best damn thing you could ever do in your life. If you don't take the chance, you'll just end up regretting it. I know its easier said than done, but you don't wanna go through life regretting not doing something.

The mother and I are 'friends' somewhat but its just taking a toll on me. Just when I think I'm over her, we have a nice chat and bam, I'm back falling for her. I just need to do something to get rid of our memories together. Doesn't help when she tells me she says she still has feelings for me, too. Meh, women are *****es.

Other than that, hows life going?

It's been a while since we last spoke, man, how're you doing these days?

lol thanks. Yeah everyone thinks I'm weird for liking those subjects lol. But best of luck with your job and the rest of your University time... and the ladies of course!

Yep, but I'm just a 2 year community college right now. I plan to transfer to a University (4 year college) once I graduate from here. My hope is to get a Masters in Astronomy or Physics. I haven't decided which one yet. But thanks! That's good though, hope the job treats you well! I would have a job, but one of the scholarships I have is going to set me up with a mentor soon whose going to basically help me as much as possible get to my career goal. So I'm not in a rush for a job yet, plus with my scholarships, I am paying very little for my college right now as it is.

Hey dude. Not bad I suppose. Just started college so that's been crazy with homework, but it's all good. How have you been?

Wicked awesome!

Never really played the WWE games since Just Bring It! on PS2. After that, they got worse and worse. 2010/11 looks good, though, what with the addition of being able to create your own storyline. Is it any good?

I'm getting quite far in AA now, I think I'm near the end. Just about to face Killer Croc in the sewers. Hope there's more Scarecrow, though, I love those parts. Anyway, how're you doing, man?