Birds and the Bees -Official Relationship Thread-

[The Black Wolf]

What do guys like in women? I'm about to start classes here in a new town in a few weeks and I'd like to know what it's like to be in a relationship. If a guy smiles at me with his teeth showing, I want to know how to react. I also want to know how to tell if a guy is interested in you.

A situation comes to mind. During A&P II Lab, there was a very cute guy in there who I conversed with a lot. I never asked him could we hang out or anything, but he gave me his number and he never answered when I called it. I eventually gave up and stopped speaking to him. I don't understand men, I don't understand why he gave me his number but would never answer it. He told me he was single so there was no girlfriend checking his phone or anything.

So how can you tell if a guy is interested in you? I want to know how to adjust from my past mistakes.

[admartian]

What do guys like in women? I'm about to start classes here in a new town in a few weeks and I'd like to know what it's like to be in a relationship. If a guy smiles at me with his teeth showing, I want to know how to react. I also want to know how to tell if a guy is interested in you.

A situation comes to mind. During A&P II Lab, there was a very cute guy in there who I conversed with a lot. I never asked him could we hang out or anything, but he gave me his number and he never answered when I called it. I eventually gave up and stopped speaking to him. I don't understand men, I don't understand why he gave me his number but would never answer it. He told me he was single so there was no girlfriend checking his phone or anything.

So how can you tell if a guy is interested in you? I want to know how to adjust from my past mistakes.

If a guy smiles, it's usually either being polite, or that they probably reciprocate your thoughts.


Regarding missing calls, if some of my friends are to go by, he probably was just dropping his nuts and didn't know what to say - therefore not answering because the fear of embarassment is too much. More often than not, it's this.


Unless you have one of those guys with all the lines and knows exactly what to say.


How do you know he's not? He could be lying ....

(sorry just messing)

[The Black Wolf]

Okay, thanks admartian.

[Sylar]

What do guys like in women? I'm about to start classes here in a new town in a few weeks and I'd like to know what it's like to be in a relationship. If a guy smiles at me with his teeth showing, I want to know how to react. I also want to know how to tell if a guy is interested in you.

A situation comes to mind. During A&P II Lab, there was a very cute guy in there who I conversed with a lot. I never asked him could we hang out or anything, but he gave me his number and he never answered when I called it. I eventually gave up and stopped speaking to him. I don't understand men, I don't understand why he gave me his number but would never answer it. He told me he was single so there was no girlfriend checking his phone or anything.

So how can you tell if a guy is interested in you? I want to know how to adjust from my past mistakes.

Maybe he didn't answer because the number wasn't recognised on his phone? I rarely answer numbers that aren't saved onto my phone.
With the smile, I always do that just to be nice and show that i'm approachable, so that usually means he doesn't want you to think he's ignoring you. It's always good to give a smile back as well Sometimes though if a guy looks at you and then looks away after 1-2 seconds it can mean he's just shy, you can usually tell by their body language and how they act towards others as well.

I always find women confusing lol, there was a girl in work and we chatted a little but never really had proper conversations. Then I'd be out with some mates and she'd go passed in her mates car, lean out the window and shout out to me & say hi. that happened a few times, and then when I'd see her in work she wouldn't say anything. when I walked passed I'd say alright and she'd say hi and didn't really make eye contact. In the end I just left it cus I didn't know how to take it really.

[Dave-The-Rave]

So I've decided that Im probably just gonna go for it with this girl because its worth taking the chance..finally starting to get some free time again and I'll be out with her on Saturday night..so Im thinking of trying something then (hopefully won't get kicked out before anything can happen again. )

I just wish she wasn't so hot and cold with me..one moment she's texting me and doing something really thoughtful..the next I'm not hearing from her for a day or two.

[Ghost-Rhayne]

What do guys like in women? I'm about to start classes here in a new town in a few weeks and I'd like to know what it's like to be in a relationship. If a guy smiles at me with his teeth showing, I want to know how to react. I also want to know how to tell if a guy is interested in you.

A situation comes to mind. During A&P II Lab, there was a very cute guy in there who I conversed with a lot. I never asked him could we hang out or anything, but he gave me his number and he never answered when I called it. I eventually gave up and stopped speaking to him. I don't understand men, I don't understand why he gave me his number but would never answer it. He told me he was single so there was no girlfriend checking his phone or anything.

So how can you tell if a guy is interested in you? I want to know how to adjust from my past mistakes.

You should do some research on body language, especially the areas relating to attraction between men and women. People usually talk with their body more than they do with their mouths, and you will be able to read a guys intentions even if he isn't verbally communicating it.

[Thorzilla]

I just saw my ex with a woman friend of hers and two dudes leaving a club about an hour ago...fuck man, I'm a train wreck. I just can't get a fucking rest. Damnit man, just damnit.

[Sylar]

So I've decided that Im probably just gonna go for it with this girl because its worth taking the chance..finally starting to get some free time again and I'll be out with her on Saturday night..so Im thinking of trying something then (hopefully won't get kicked out before anything can happen again. )

I just wish she wasn't so hot and cold with me..one moment she's texting me and doing something really thoughtful..the next I'm not hearing from her for a day or two.

i get the same man, it can be such a mind fuck, i just try and take it as it comes and not read too much into it, otherwise your emotions are up n down like a hoe.

I just saw my ex with a woman friend of hers and two dudes leaving a club about an hour ago...fuck man, I'm a train wreck. I just can't get a fucking rest. Damnit man, just damnit.

that sucks man :/ never easy seeing shit like that, have you talked to any mates about it since?

[Thorzilla]

that sucks man :/ never easy seeing shit like that, have you talked to any mates about it since?

No man, I'm just sleepless at the moment. I don't think they'd care or give any other input other than to let go anyway. It's probably the best advice, but I just don't know what else to do to feel good, or just to feel right.

[Dave-The-Rave]

I went through the exact same thing with my last gf..it took time (and LOTS of it) to heal. In my case, I went from still caring about her..to resentment, to hatred..to just not caring anymore.

As with my thing with this other girl...Im think im giving up on that now. Had a pretty bad night last night. By the time I arrived to the club she was already wasted, she was happy to see me..but I just couldn't keep her attention, she was flirting with anyone who tried it on. I made sure to hang about til the end of the night so I could walk her back to her friend's place, she was pretty drunk...some other stuff happened too (mainly vibes and stuff) won't go into it though...felt like I was just annoying her and her friends because I wasn't as drunk as them and I was being protective.

Anyway..don't really feel like talking to her atm. Lets just say if I do start talking again it will be her who texts me first.

[admartian]

I went through the exact same thing with my last gf..it took time (and LOTS of it) to heal. In my case, I went from still caring about her..to resentment, to hatred..to just not caring anymore.

As with my thing with this other girl...Im think im giving up on that now. Had a pretty bad night last night. By the time I arrived to the club she was already wasted, she was happy to see me..but I just couldn't keep her attention, she was flirting with anyone who tried it on. I made sure to hang about til the end of the night so I could walk her back to her friend's place, she was pretty drunk...some other stuff happened too (mainly vibes and stuff) won't go into it though...felt like I was just annoying her and her friends because I wasn't as drunk as them and I was being protective.

Anyway..don't really feel like talking to her atm. Lets just say if I do start talking again it will be her who texts me first.

Women.

jk

I think its best to do what you're doing now. Just cool off and clear your head.

[Sylar]

glad im not the only one!

[Sufi]

I went through the exact same thing with my last gf..it took time (and LOTS of it) to heal. In my case, I went from still caring about her..to resentment, to hatred..to just not caring anymore.

As with my thing with this other girl...Im think im giving up on that now. Had a pretty bad night last night. By the time I arrived to the club she was already wasted, she was happy to see me..but I just couldn't keep her attention, she was flirting with anyone who tried it on. I made sure to hang about til the end of the night so I could walk her back to her friend's place, she was pretty drunk...some other stuff happened too (mainly vibes and stuff) won't go into it though...felt like I was just annoying her and her friends because I wasn't as drunk as them and I was being protective.

Anyway..don't really feel like talking to her atm. Lets just say if I do start talking again it will be her who texts me first.

Remember when I wrote that you should go for it?

I knew something like this was going to happen but if it hadn't happened, you wouldn't be wiser now and still would've wondered what could've happened with her.

Sometimes it's best to experience it than hearing about it and wondering.

My real advice is to just keep it casual until you're older and these girls are older as well (hopefully not someone like her anyway). Then you will find more girls that are serious about relationship.

This is also true with men...just that in general, both men and women are kids until the age of 25 or more. Unless you find someone special now, it's not worth going serious with anyone...so just keep it casual, have fun and you'll know when you're ready. Or well, I should say when "they're" ready.

[Dave-The-Rave]

Dammit..I hate casual, and I won't date an older girl too..so you see my predicament..lol.

Feeling like shit atm anyway cause I made too much of an attachment to this girl even though I warned myself not to.

[The Black Wolf]

Hey, how can I be proactive on the romantic front? Do I just need to go to places like fairs, parties, etc? I just want to meet someone and see how dating is, and perhaps find me a husband out there.

[Thorzilla]

Hey, how can I be proactive on the romantic front? Do I just need to go to places like fairs, parties, etc? I just want to meet someone and see how dating is, and perhaps find me a husband out there.

Oh no woman, don't go out finding a husband. You'll scare the living shit out of every man out there
In other news, fuck my head, making me want to get back with my ex. It wasn't so bad after all. Actually not at all if some things had been different, but...gah, I give up, I'm a train wreck in all fronts!

[HellsJester]

Hey, how can I be proactive on the romantic front? Do I just need to go to places like fairs, parties, etc? I just want to meet someone and see how dating is, and perhaps find me a husband out there.

Matters what kind of guy you want.

Question for you
Would you date a Atheist?

[The Black Wolf]

Matters what kind of guy you want.

Question for you
Would you date a Atheist?

No. I don't hate atheists or anyone for that matter, it's just that I KNOW it would be trouble. A relationship with an atheist and a believer will most likely never work.

I do want to meet christian men, but men who share my interests.

[HellsJester]

No. I don't hate atheists or anyone for that matter, it's just that I KNOW it would be trouble. A relationship with an atheist and a believer will most likely never work.

I do want to meet christian men, but men who share my interests.

Isnt there a online dating site for christians only?
I believe its called christian mingle or something like that.
I see the commercial of it on tv almost every day.
You can always try that.

[Mike_Harradence]

Yep, and there's even a dating site for gamers too that just opened up in the U.K. Seems like they cater to all sorts of interests and personalities these days, which I guess can only be a good thing.

Black Wolf, I would suggest just getting out there and being social, it'll happen more organically that way. You probably should try that before using dating websites. You never know, you may really connect with someone.

[The Black Wolf]

All right, I'll give it a go. Just got to look for social gatherings in this town that interest me.

[R3D D3V!L]

Yep, and there's even a dating site for gamers too that just opened up in the U.K. Seems like they cater to all sorts of interests and personalities these days, which I guess can only be a good thing.

Black Wolf, I would suggest just getting out there and being social, it'll happen more organically that way. You probably should try that before using dating websites. You never know, you may really connect with someone.

Dating site for gamers? Seriously?

[HellsJester]

Yep, and there's even a dating site for gamers too that just opened up in the U.K. Seems like they cater to all sorts of interests and personalities these days, which I guess can only be a good thing.

Black Wolf, I would suggest just getting out there and being social, it'll happen more organically that way. You probably should try that before using dating websites. You never know, you may really connect with someone.

Does that dating site for gamers have USA options? If not can you tell me if a USA one exists?

[PeanutButterMunky]

All right, I'll give it a go. Just got to look for social gatherings in this town that interest me.

Don't even go to social gatherings with the intent to find a date. Just go there with the intent to have fun and just be yourself. That usually yields good results.

[Sylar]

best way i found is to go out with mates when you can, you get to meet their other friends and that can sometimes lead somewhere you're also more likely just to come across someone who is interested, ive had that myself a few times.