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    Hey Guys, How do you ask out a girl?

    Well, I'm 14 and a teen, so obviously I like girls. The problem is that Im not really experienced with them. So if you'd kind enough and tell how I should ask a girl out, be mature btw. Thank You.




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    It should just happen naturally. I've never really asked a girl out, just sort of happens without me realising. lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dave-The-Rave View Post
    It should just happen naturally. I've never really asked a girl out, just sort of happens without me realising. lol.
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    lol, not really..I used to fret a lot too, but I've found out that the more casual you are to the situation the easier it is.

    I'm a total idiot with girls sometimes, was at a houseparty a couple of weeks ago..when I was walking home one of the girls called out to me wanting my number, I thought it was innocent so I gave it. Then she said she would come round to mine in a bit. I didn't realise til she said that.

    I felt bad then, cause I wasn't into her that way..so I had to politely say no when she texted 10 minutes later.
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    Ask them out without them realizing you're asking them out. It's brilliant.

    Show interest in the girl, and hopefully she'll return the sentiment. Then, seriously, just ask her out. It's that simple. It really is. I mean, you can go all fancy, try some tricks, etc., but nothing gets to the point better than just asking the girl out. It really does help if they actually know you, but from my experience that isn't always necessary lol.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Dave-The-Rave View Post
    lol, not really..I used to fret a lot too, but I've found out that the more casual you are to the situation the easier it is.

    I'm a total idiot with girls sometimes, was at a houseparty a couple of weeks ago..when I was walking home one of the girls called out to me wanting my number, I thought it was innocent so I gave it. Then she said she would come round to mine in a bit. I didn't realise til she said that.

    I felt bad then, cause I wasn't into her that way..so I had to politely say no when she texted 10 minutes later.
    well you have the understanding that the past actions are not what you are now.. Same can be said for all men, we aim to impress, but miss the most important part and that is honesty, truth, understanding and take it slow. We want are pleasure early and the hell with the way we get it. Now over the years i regretted the way i treated girls back then
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    Just don't overthink things, if you do you'll sweat and get clammy hands..that's not attractive at all.

    Play. It. Cool.

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    i agree play it cool, never over shoot the target in terms of trying to hard. Take it slow and make it simple

    Because the simplest actions go a very long way
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    Just ask her out plain and simple....u're gonna be nervous but she'll more likely understand.



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    =F34R;5734982]Ask them out without them realizing you're asking them out. It's brilliant.

    Show interest in the girl, and hopefully she'll return the sentiment. Then, seriously, just ask her out. It's that simple. It really is. I mean, you can go all fancy, try some tricks, etc., but nothing gets to the point better than just asking the girl out. It really does help if they actually know you, but from my experience that isn't always necessary lol.
    Thanx guys.

    That is what I've been doing so far mostly.Though, I've been so nervous lately, I need the right time to ask her out.

    I do agree, I need to play it cool, I try to hard to get her attention; its almost pathetic.

    Another thing is, I'm too afraid how she and her friends would judge me, and if she says no. How do I fix that?

    And Blacksite, Im pretty damn sure that asking her to have sex wont work
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    Play it cool, the one thing you MUST NOT DO! Is show TOO much interest, which is easier said than done when you like someone.

    That is a classic mistake, especially at your age (no offence) it is easy to make that mistake, the more cool you play it the better it will be for you.

    As for the actual asking out, casually mention a movie you want to see blah blah she may say "Oh I want to see that" Then you can say "Wanna go on such and such day" is a good ploy.

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    So you all accept to lie, right? Playing cool is simply lieing, because you can't be cool all the time

    And yes girls love and die to hear some sweety lies, this is a little bit cheating but come on we are all gamers

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shingo View Post
    So you all accept to lie, right? Playing cool is simply lieing, because you can't be cool all the time

    And yes girls love and die to hear some sweety lies, this is a little bit cheating but come on we are all gamers

    I just have one advise for you, never fall in love!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by yourmumsface17 View Post
    Play it cool, the one thing you MUST NOT DO! Is show TOO much interest, which is easier said than done when you like someone.

    That is a classic mistake, especially at your age (no offence) it is easy to make that mistake, the more cool you play it the better it will be for you.

    As for the actual asking out, casually mention a movie you want to see blah blah she may say "Oh I want to see that" Then you can say "Wanna go on such and such day" is a good ploy.
    I kind of tried that yesterday (texting) it didn't really work, but I will try it again because it works most of the time, I use that method to get things from my parents .

    @Shingo, lying may work in the begining, but like other members pointed out; it will come back to you. I even know not to start a relationship off of a lie.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Dave-The-Rave View Post
    lol, not really..I used to fret a lot too, but I've found out that the more casual you are to the situation the easier it is.

    I'm a total idiot with girls sometimes, was at a houseparty a couple of weeks ago..when I was walking home one of the girls called out to me wanting my number, I thought it was innocent so I gave it. Then she said she would come round to mine in a bit. I didn't realise til she said that.

    I felt bad then, cause I wasn't into her that way..so I had to politely say no when she texted 10 minutes later.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wesmore24 View Post
    Thanx guys.

    That is what I've been doing so far mostly.Though, I've been so nervous lately, I need the right time to ask her out.

    I do agree, I need to play it cool, I try to hard to get her attention; its almost pathetic.

    Another thing is, I'm too afraid how she and her friends would judge me, and if she says no. How do I fix that?

    And Blacksite, Im pretty damn sure that asking her to have sex wont work
    If she says no, or her friends are acting like "you shouldn't go out with that guy... ewww", etc., then she isn't worth your time in the first place.

    Also, about the comment Blacksite made, it has worked in the past. Now I have three kids with the woman, and we've been married for almost 16 years.




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    Quote Originally Posted by DreDayDetox View Post
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    Why didnt I think of that?

    Also, Is it a bad thing if I'm in the so called "friend zone" with her? Im not sure if its bad or not, because three months ago I barely knew her, but I liked her kind of right away, we're friends now, but I guess thats better than not really knowing her at all?

    @I know her friends, a couple like me, the others I dont really know, so it could go both ways. Are you sure that worked F34R? If so, I may try it.
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