I need some help with bad neighbors

[weskurtz81]

What are the "dire consequences" that would occur due to you moving?

[BoyBettaKnow]

I think you should just get over whatever they're saying. I don't mean to be rude but you seem to have the same problem wherever you go (this isn't the first thread like this you've made be it about college or where you live) so my guess is your a bit sensitive to people not liking you. Just accept that not everyone will like you and wherever you go there will always be someone who has something to say. Letting it affect you lets them know they are getting to you.

Just my opinion of course


BBK. Tapatalking.

[The Black Wolf]

I think you should just get over whatever they're saying. I don't mean to be rude but you seem to have the same problem wherever you go (this isn't the first thread like this you've made be it about college or where you live) so my guess is your a bit sensitive to people not liking you. Just accept that not everyone will like you and wherever you go there will always be someone who has something to say. Letting it affect you lets them know they are getting to you.

Just my opinion of course


BBK. Tapatalking.

You are being rude. You're one of the members who keeps bringing up that I've posted threads like this in the past and you're also one of the members who stated I was lying to get attention or something like that.

What's the point in bringing up that I've posted a thread like this before? If I were doing it every day or week, I'd understand but I don't and I'm not. Yes, you have the right to do what you want to do, but if I don't like banana flavored candy, I don't eat it. You can't stand it and it's causing you grief, I wouldn't read it or post in it.

[The Black Wolf]

What are the "dire consequences" that would occur due to you moving?

It costs a lot of money, time, trust, and resources to move here. If I leave, it'll be so much harder to move somewhere else.

I'm grateful this isn't nearly as bad as the dorms I was in at a university. If I can just ignore or deal with this, then the only thing stopping me from getting a degree is getting into the competitive program. Once I adjust, I'll be able to study and do the things required to continue to make good grades.

[BoyBettaKnow]

You are being rude. You're one of the members who keeps bringing up that I've posted threads like this in the past and you're also one of the members who stated I was lying to get attention or something like that.

What's the point in bringing up that I've posted a thread like this before? If I were doing it every day or week, I'd understand but I don't and I'm not. Yes, you have the right to do what you want to do, but if I don't like banana flavored candy, I don't eat it. You can't stand it and it's causing you grief, I wouldn't read it or post in it.

I'm sorry you take my not beating around the bush as being rude, i'm simply offering my opinion. I don't remember calling you a liar directly or accusing you that you post this for attention. We're on a forum, who in their right mind would crave attention on a forum?

I brought that up because for some reason once every few months a thread will pop up from you asking advice on how to deal with a situation where it seems that everyone is against you and that you get persecuted for no reason at all. I just find it hard to believe that someone like yourself, who comes across as a nice person, can be victim to so much where ever they go. So yeah, while it isn't every week or month for that matter but to happen to the same person so many times, I just find that interesting.

This has nothing about me not enjoying it - If i don't like a thread I won't go into one. This has nothing to do with me disliking the thread and more to do with just me voicing my opinion. In fact, i don't even know what it was that i said that rubbed you the wrong way. It's the truth. There will be many people in life who don't like you. Worrying about one person out of the few billion in the world who doesn't like you, especially if it is causing headaches, just seems like a ridiculous amount of stress to put yourself through.

[The Black Wolf]

I'm sorry you take my not beating around the bush as being rude, i'm simply offering my opinion. I don't remember calling you a liar directly or accusing you that you post this for attention. We're on a forum, who in their right mind would crave attention on a forum?

There were other members like "Dave" who didn't beat around the bush. Do you know why your post rubbed me the wrong way? Because you keep bringing up the threads I posted in the past! And you did it again in this post. I'm not even asking WHY this is happening, I'm asking what to do about it.

I brought that up because for some reason once every few months a thread will pop up from you asking advice on how to deal with a situation where it seems that everyone is against you and that you get persecuted for no reason at all. I just find it hard to believe that someone like yourself, who comes across as a nice person, can be victim to so much where ever they go. So yeah, while it isn't every week or month for that matter but to happen to the same person so many times, I just find that interesting.

It's not interesting to you, or at least that's not how you came across.

This has nothing about me not enjoying it - If i don't like a thread I won't go into one. This has nothing to do with me disliking the thread and more to do with just me voicing my opinion. In fact, i don't even know what it was that i said that rubbed you the wrong way. It's the truth. There will be many people in life who don't like you. Worrying about one person out of the few billion in the world who doesn't like you, especially if it is causing headaches, just seems like a ridiculous amount of stress to put yourself through.

I know there are people who won't like you. It's that way for everyone. I know that. You bringing up my past threads rubbed me the wrong way.

And yes, you were one of the members who agreed that I make crap up for attention. I find it unlikely you're in this thread because you are "interested".

[DeviousOne]

I know there are people who won't like you. It's that way for everyone. I know that.

What? everyone likes ME I'm fucking awesome and if you don't like that fuck you....lmao (what runs thru my mind daily lol)

The Black Wolf I don't think BBK is trying to insult you. To me it seems he's implying you situations seen to have a common theme where your a victim. Which I feel hey it may not be right but based on what threads you have posted before I can see anyone thinking that. Are you doing it for attention I don't think so you just sharing like other do on the forum.

You taking offense to what anyone says reiterated what his first post was saying if you think about it. He's just being honest with you no need to be upset about it its his opinion and just like you told him he doesn't have to post or give it same thing can be said to you because u don't have to read his post or respond to it.

[Blacksite]

There were other members like "Dave" who didn't beat around the bush. Do you know why your post rubbed me the wrong way? Because you keep bringing up the threads I posted in the past! And you did it again in this post. I'm not even asking WHY this is happening, I'm asking what to do about it.

He's basically telling you to grow thicker skin.

I'm not saying he was right or wrong but you were asking what to do about your problem and that was his solution. Now you're only driving your thread off-topic by bringing up the fact that he said something about the past when you could have ignored it over even reported it, if it bothered you that much.

[x_terna]

The moment you went out there at 2am and told them to keep quite that's what started everything, you should of just let it go and ignored it. Now they'll keep messing with you until you move out.(are they all guys btw?) and by calling the cops makes it worse. Well sounds like they're friends with someone around you.

[BoyBettaKnow]

TBW, what i find interesting is that wherever you go there seems to be atleast one person, usually a neighbour, that is against you. That's what i find interesting, that someone can be that unlucky with wherever they go. Regardless, if my opinion bothers you that much click the ignore user button. I don't want to make it difficult for anyone here, I certainly won't change the way i think though.

[The Black Wolf]

He's basically telling you to grow thicker skin.

I'm not saying he was right or wrong but you were asking what to do about your problem and that was his solution. Now you're only driving your thread off-topic by bringing up the fact that he said something about the past when you could have ignored it over even reported it, if it bothered you that much.

Okay, I'm working on it, on growing a thicker skin.

The moment you went out there at 2am and told them to keep quite that's what started everything, you should of just let it go and ignored it. Now they'll keep messing with you until you move out.(are they all guys btw?) and by calling the cops makes it worse. Well sounds like they're friends with someone around you.

Some of them are guys, some girls. How was I supposed to ignore something that wouldn't allow me to sleep?

I got my solution and I thank you guys. I'll just see if I can get better at ignoring things.

[spyrde]

I'm with you on growing a thicker skin and letting the haters hate, but you should definitely stand your ground and not let people like that pick on you. You did the right thing by going up to them and asking them to be quiet, if those fuckers won't let you sleep then you're not going to just ignore them! If this kind of stuff continues you should make damn sure those people harassing you get what they deserve. Have a chat with the owners of the house and make it clear that you will contact the authorities next time.