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    I'd disagree. Masturbating to pornography while in a sexual relationship can alter your expectations, desires and the perception of partner.

    I'd hate to introduce a slippery slope argument. Pornography titillates, but will often become boring. For instance, at 13 I had giant $#@!s at a Victoria Secret catalog. I got Dial-up and found naked pictures (softcore); Victoria's secret seemed tame. Then I got broad band and found videos (girls masturbating, striptease, etc). The thought of jerking off to a .jpg seemed nearly as ridiculous as getting excited by Victoria’s Secret. Soon, I got more “developed” tastes: Lesbians, then Male/Female Sex, Group Sex, Anal. By the end I was watching videos of dudes with enormous $#@!s shooting gallons of cum.

    When I was with my girlfriend sexually, to get hard, porn images ran by my mind. I was no longer with her, but elsewhere, in a fantasy porn world. I got her to “experiment” silly positions that I saw in porn. Eventually try things that were most likely dehumanizing, just to get off. Because it’s what I would get off to when she wasn’t around.

    Pornography desensitizes. Our relationships are affected. Our perspective of the opposite sex is perverted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vegan_mekey View Post
    I'd disagree. Masturbating to pornography while in a sexual relationship can alter your expectations, desires and the perception of partner.

    I'd hate to introduce a slippery slope argument. Pornography titillates, but will often become boring. For instance, at 13 I had giant $#@!s at a Victoria Secret catalog. I got Dial-up and found naked pictures (softcore); Victoria's secret seemed tame. Then I got broad band and found videos (girls masturbating, striptease, etc). The thought of jerking off to a .jpg seemed nearly as ridiculous as getting excited by Victoria’s Secret. Soon, I got more “developed” tastes: Lesbians, then Male/Female Sex, Group Sex, Anal. By the end I was watching videos of dudes with enormous $#@!s shooting gallons of cum.

    When I was with my girlfriend sexually, to get hard, porn images ran by my mind. I was no longer with her, but elsewhere, in a fantasy porn world. I got her to “experiment” silly positions that I saw in porn. Eventually try things that were most likely dehumanizing, just to get off. Because it’s what I would get off to when she wasn’t around.

    Pornography desensitizes. Our relationships are affected. Our perspective of the opposite sex is perverted.
    once again, that is not the case for every one...if a person thinks that what he watches in porn is how it should be in a real world situation then he/she has deeper issues than his/her sexual expectations/habits

    i watch mostly group/orgy porn because i like to see multiple women at a time, does not mean ill want to have an orgy with my wife lol...might be fantasy of mine but i know it'll never happen. drifting off to a fantasy while making love or having sex, means your really not into the person you're doing it with. i dont ever recall thinking of another female while f'ing the $#@! out my wife lol even tho i might have finished watching porn before getting it in with her (i can not get hard while watching porn with my gf...now wife). its different with each individual.

    if every body is the same then i feel sorry for those that watch animal porn....
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    porn is a job, were real life is a lot harder
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    Quote Originally Posted by YoungMullah88 View Post
    once again, that is not the case for every one...if a person thinks that what he watches in porn is how it should be in a real world situation then he/she has deeper issues than his/her sexual expectations/habits

    i watch mostly group/orgy porn because i like to see multiple women at a time, does not mean ill want to have an orgy with my wife lol...might be fantasy of mine but i know it'll never happen. drifting off to a fantasy while making love or having sex, means your really not into the person you're doing it with. i dont ever recall thinking of another female while f'ing the $#@! out my wife lol even tho i might have finished watching porn before getting it in with her (i can not get hard while watching porn with my gf...now wife). its different with each individual.

    if every body is the same then i feel sorry for those that watch animal porn....


    But even the role of pornography has seaped into your dialog. Intimacy, it can be argued, is grossly different than "f'ing the $#@! out of [your] wife." For instance, your articulation expresses sexual intimacy as an act you (male) does to someone (female). Coincidentally (not so,) this parallels with the subservient role of women in pornography. Women in pornography are a sexual object, quite like something you would "F' the $#@! out of," in this case your wife.

    My question, if the frame of pornography has manifested itself (subtle) into your expression and articulation, how can you be confident that it hasn't affect other areas of your life? Were multiple partners a fantasy of yours prior to watching group porn? Was there ever a time when your wife was sufficient enough to not fantasize about other partners?

    We all want to say "I'm too strong to be affected by that" but this is unrealistic. The unconscious mind is susceptible to priming, (having a stimulus in the past affect the way we think and behave or respond to another stimulus later on). In combination with a sexual/emotional state our conscious mind does not stand a chance.

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    unless you want a girlfriend or boyfriend acting out a porn scene or porn scenes over a period of time and not in one go, then you can spice up your sex life. But then again it can ruin it as well or all together.. Its a hard one to figure out without pain

    but it takes away your ability to learn on you're own and you teach you're self the way to do things and enjoy it.... porn is a learning tool for some, but not everyone

    Believe me, i learned my own way and failed and learned from them mistakes... I never took anything from porn
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    Quote Originally Posted by vegan_mekey View Post
    And you find her opinion more valid than university professors?
    On this matter, indeed I do.
    Don't assume just because she was once an adult film star that automatically makes her less intelligent or her opinion any less valid then a university professor. You've no idea who she is, her educational level or anything for that matter. She could be you/your kids professor for all you know.

    Forgive me for thinking there are still some things kids should learn from their parents and not pawned off on someone else.
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    Whats was her porn name?
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    I rather not say in the thread.
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    Quote Originally Posted by faaeng View Post
    On this matter, indeed I do.
    Don't assume just because she was once an adult film star that automatically makes her less intelligent or her opinion any less valid then a university professor.

    Iím going to go out a limb and say someone that has obtained advanced degrees (i.e. Ph.D, Masterís) and spends their time researching and educating on this issue may have a more valid opinion than someone whose only qualification is theyíve sucked $#@! for a living.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nitey View Post
    Some students were watching porn during a lecture break in one of my Psychology modules last year. One guy with his laptop and like 4 girls all sat side by side on the row. Someone complained anonymously and the head of our department sent out an email to everyone saying this isn't allowed and asked for students to come forth and identify those involved

    It was weird, I could see everything going on on his screen. It was a girl giving a pov $#@! and the girls next to the dude with the laptop were all like oh no, omg really etc, so I'm guessing they all knew the chick. Why you would choose a lecture break to watch that I have no idea
    Where do you go uni ? If its Brighton I know the story and the girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by squirrelbo1 View Post
    Where do you go uni ? If its Brighton I know the story and the girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vegan_mekey View Post
    Iím going to go out a limb and say someone that has obtained advanced degrees (i.e. Ph.D, Masterís) and spends their time researching and educating on this issue may have a more valid opinion than someone whose only qualification is theyíve sucked $#@! for a living.
    Whose to say they didn't pay for that Ph.D or Master's degree by sucking $#@!? You know about as much about these professors as you do my girl. Nothing at all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by faaeng View Post
    Whose to say they didn't pay for that Ph.D or Master's degree by sucking $#@!? You know about as much about these professors as you do my girl. Nothing at all.
    Hold on, I'm going to ask a police K9 drug-sniffing dog what's his opinion on the drug war.

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    Your ignorance must be blissful...
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    Quote Originally Posted by faaeng View Post
    Whose to say they didn't pay for that Ph.D or Master's degree by sucking $#@!?
    Even if so, how would this invalidate their expertise and academic authority on a subject?


    Quote Originally Posted by faaeng View Post
    You know about as much about these professors as you do my girl. Nothing at all.
    You do realize that it is very easy to obtain a professor's curriculum vitae, via the internet.

    For instance, Andy Phipphen of the study mention, obtained a Bachelors of Science with Honors in "Computing and Informatics" in 1996 from Plymouth University. He then completed a Post-Graduate certificate in "Learning and Teaching in Higher Education," in 1998. Finally he completed a Doctoral Dissertation on "Component Technologies and their Impact upon Software Development." He currently is a Professor of Social Responsibility in IT, at Plymouth Business School. If needed I can provide you with his physical address, email address and office phone number.

    Regarding your "girl," I only know a few things. 1) She worked in the adult entertainment industry. 2) You are too ashamed to mention her name online. 3) You like to imply that what if she has a doctorate, yet when you offered your opinion on the subject matter, you choose to qualify her as being a former pornstar, instead of being a professor. This causes me to significantly doubt the prospect that she is a qualified expert in the field of Social Responsibility in Information Technology.


    Quote Originally Posted by faaeng View Post
    Your ignorance must be blissful...
    Since I am so blissfully ignorant, I'm going to need your assistance. Please explain how having sex in front of a camera qualifies one to make educated opinions on the subject of interrelational affects of viewing pornography that are more valid than a distinguished academic professional who researches and currently educates upon this subject matter.

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