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    Do guys ever feel guilty about that?

    I admit there are girls and women who sleep with more men than they should. Out of these women, there are women who are aware that they are considered "$#@!s" and these women are okay with that. These women love sex and may not want to settle down or do not want a relationship.

    However, what about the girls and women who get "tricked" and "used"?

    Example:

    A 14 year old girl is considered hot by a 18 year old guy. He hangs out with her for 3 weeks and she gives herself to him. He has already told his friends he just wants to "$#@!" her and that's it. So he gets this girl three times and he has her out of his system. Now, he stops talking to the girl. He won't answer her calls, texts, in person interaction, etc.

    The girl came to school crying her eyes out. For weeks this girl is depressed. Meanwhile, the guy brags about his new trophy.

    This does not only happen to this 14 year old girl. This happens to teenagers and women in their 20s. These women want a boyfriend but once the guy hits it he's gone and she's another trophy.

    Here's my question for the guys who do this or know about this:

    Do you EVER feel guilty about how you made that woman feel? Do you ever feel guilty that this woman or girl go on to have trust issues with men and some of them don't even feel like dating men?

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    If a girl gives her self up after 3 weeks she's too easy. So no I wouldn't.


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    Why should there be a limit on how many partners you can have? What does women sleeping with more men than they should even mean? As long as it consensual and safe, I don't really see the problem.

    If a guy wants sex and nothing else from a girl, there's nothing wrong with that as long as he makes his intentions clear. As for the guy who doesn't make his intentions clear, assholes gonna asshole I guess.

    Also, what's with the weird age gap thing going on there?
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    Quote Originally Posted by BoyBettaKnow View Post
    If a girl gives her self up after 3 weeks she's too easy. So no I wouldn't.


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    Why? This girl didn't know any better. She just wanted a boyfriend and she really like that dude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Acid Snake View Post
    Why should there be a limit on how many partners you can have? What does women sleeping with more men than they should even mean? As long as it consensual and safe, I don't really see the problem.

    If a guy wants sex and nothing else from a girl, there's nothing wrong with that as long as he makes his intentions clear. As for the guy who doesn't make his intentions clear, assholes gonna asshole I guess.

    Also, what's with the weird age gap thing going on there?
    It's true it's not my business what other people do, BUT in my opinion it's not right to have unlimited partners, both for men and women. That's just how I feel and I won't and don't stop other people from doing what they want. They have that right.

    That's the thing about these guys. They DON'T make their intentions clear. In the true story I just told, he didn't tell that girl anything. The age gap is just how it is. The girl that happened to was 14 and the guy 18.

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    I actually knew this dude who was 18 that banged this 14 year old back when I was a freshman in hs. He was pretty douchey.

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    It seems they are both rather stupid.

    He is stupid for being inconsiderate. However it seems in this example that its not entirely his fault. He just wanted the poon, she expected a whirlwind romance to come of it, as you said..
    he just wants to "$#@!" her and that's it.
    Peado Alert much? anyway...

    She is stupid for thinking that laying herself out like a cheap steak will make him fall madely in love with her. Forgetting the age old ways of actual courtship and getting to know one another, forming a relationship which isnt initiated by legs splitting apart in the air.


    Whats the story here exactly? im guessing this isnt a hypothetical situation...
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    I apologize. I made this thread thinking that when guys want booty, and nothing but booty, they don't make their intentions clear and hurt the girl or woman. It seems there are guys out there who DO make their intentions clear. I didn't know this and apologize.

    There are some guys around here who don't make their intentions clear. At one college I was at, I found out these guys wanted my behind and were even considering lieing, "Tell her you love her."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kingstoph View Post

    Whats the story here exactly? im guessing this isnt a hypothetical situation...
    Yes, that is a true story of something that happened back in my high school days. That poor girl.

    She was crying her little heart out and the teachers and her mother couldn't figure out what was wrong. My classmates from the street and up to date with the gossip were telling other kids what happened.

    I don't think her mother ever found out.

    These older guys around here use these girls. They drive around in their girlfriend's car to another girl's house to cheat on her.

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    Said girl has no business having sex at 14. Thats the first problem with this scenerio. Children should not be having sex. Why is that so complicated....and if you think a 14 year old isn't a child than thats a problem right there. Children aren't emotionally developed to be entering into these types of decisions. They aren't equipped to deal with the reprocussions nor the consequences of the actions. To me this is the parents fault for not having the discussion with this child and give them a proper education about sex and the emotions and consequences (emotional, social, and physical). I can't even believe a child that young even knows how to have sex much less understands everything that goes with it. I know at 14 I had no idea....I was more worried about sports and school.

    Anyways despite all that...as for older adults most guys are assholes. Most my friends were and would lie and manipulate to get sex...do just about anything honestly. It is up to the individual to protect themselves. I would say if you want an honest relationship sex could wait months. If the guy is a good guy they will wait. If their intentions are pure they will wait. If not they will move on to a faster piece of ass. Guys are lazy and we aren't going to work that hard for a piece of ass. We are going to move on pretty fast if we see its a dead in. We may try it for a week or two...or keep you at a distance and get some elsewhere and then try to hit it later but honestly...they aren't going to be in a full blow relationship just to get some sex. Once you've been in a committed relationship....whether it be months or perhaps over a year there is still no guarantee they won't leave after the sex but any guy that puts in that kind of dedication and proven themselves over that time is likely to be one that wouldn't do it.

    Honestly...there shouldn't be people abusing others emotions in the way you describe but there are....and it is up to you or the individual to protect yourself....and the best way is abstinance until they have earned your trust. I don't trust anyone right away.

    So...if your 14..you got no business having sex. Get educated and have a discussion with a womens group about the subject. If your an adult....make them earn it......assholes aren't generally going to announce themselves...if they do than you know what your getting then all good....but it shouldn't be a surprise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by davin_g View Post
    abstinance
    *Shudder*

    Such a dirty word, one that shouldnt never be spoken during an assembly with purity rings, thats just unhealthy...
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    The first scenario is paedophilia. Something wrong with that guy, its called grooming.

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    What if it was a first date sex? Would i feel guilty? i don't think so.




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    Quote Originally Posted by brebaz View Post
    What if it was a first date sex? Would i feel guilty? i don't think so.
    So, if you went on a first date with a woman, slept with her, ignored any further communications with her, and treated her like a trophy, you wouldn't feel not a seed of guilt? What if you found out this woman cried her eyes out and is extremely hurt you treated her like a piece of meat, you still wouldn't feel a thing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kingstoph View Post
    *Shudder*

    Such a dirty word, one that shouldnt never be spoken during an assembly with purity rings, thats just unhealthy...
    He's right though. If a woman or a man was abstinent, they'd have ZERO chance of being "used" for sex. No person who uses a person for sex will want to go through the trouble of marrying the trophy they are chasing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by keefy View Post
    The first scenario is paedophilia. Something wrong with that guy, its called grooming.
    Its not pedophilla, pedophilla is about prepubescent children around 11 and younger. This is statutory rape.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Black Wolf View Post
    So, if you went on a first date with a woman, slept with her, ignored any further communications with her, and treated her like a trophy, you wouldn't feel not a seed of guilt? What if you found out this woman cried her eyes out and is extremely hurt you treated her like a piece of meat, you still wouldn't feel a thing?
    If i sleep with a woman on the first date and that was it, we hadn't agreed upon anything at all after that, Why would i?

    I'm pretty sure though, that a woman does that more than men's do.




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    I don't know what the age limits are on the other side of the pond but in the U.S - where the original poster is from- that guy would probably be going to court once the parents of said girl found out, as 14 isn't even the age of parental consent (except maybe in backwaters like kentucky or sum chit) .
    There are many ways to look at sex. Most people are materialistic to some point, and due to this fact suffer some degree of object-ifing. For this group sex is just an act. There is another group that is very banal, and for them carnal pleasures are alluring, for them as the first group - its just an act. I'd say the majority of people see sex this way.
    Then there are the truly religious who see it as an act to be performed after marriage, and to varying degrees of moral of religious belief between commited individuals.
    Sex is also a method of spiritual ascension, as you see with sex cults, users of kama sutra , etc. But I think this is a extremely low minority as a whole, though many adults may have had experience bordering spiritual while having sex unwittingly.
    If your approach is casual then sex early in a relationship is fine, so long as both are of a mature age and its consensual. However if your goal is a commited monogamous relationship then time in a relationship first is undoubtedly the better course.
    For me age is a huge factor in the conversation, as a 18 yr old or 20 something will have a different perception than a 40 something. Generally speaking of course. These are all generalisations though.
    Personally sex has always been more meaningful in a commited relationship, but tbh not always better. But II've always been honest with my partners whatever my intentions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brebaz View Post
    If i sleep with a woman on the first date and that was it, we hadn't agreed upon anything at all after that, Why would i?
    That's different and not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about these men that go around tricking women.

    I'm pretty sure though, that a woman does that more than men's do.
    Nope, that is certainly far from the truth. We women do not go around tricking men for sex not nearly as much as men do it. Men even go around bragging about it and the porn industry is created to appeal to men, not women.

    Men like sex more than women. Men think about it more than women and even have a drive to impregnate as many women as possible. Any man who says women are more or as sexual as man is a big liar. There's research, science, and doctors to back that up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Black Wolf View Post
    That's different and not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about these men that go around tricking women.



    Nope, that is certainly far from the truth. We women do not go around tricking men for sex not nearly as much as men do it. Men even go around bragging about it and the porn industry is created to appeal to men, not women.

    Men like sex more than women. Men think about it more than women and even have a drive to impregnate as many women as possible. Any man who says women are more or as sexual as man is a big liar. There's research, science, and doctors to back that up.
    1- Woman don't go tricking men for Sex because they have the key!! Unlock it and unload!!
    2- All men are liars and Women lie as often if not more.

    You're an exception. I'm saying what i'm saying from experience not from research, Not from science and certainly not from doctors. I have my experience to back that up.

    How many woman do you know actually approach a man if she likes him? the numbers are low right? Now, lets look at it from the man side, Approach, pay for the date and if she doesn't like him she would say let us be friends!! of course a man would brag about women like trophies cause they are very hard to get!!

    Anyway, explaining this to a woman is like starting a war and i would be called sexist or something.

    Well, have a good day.




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    Good learning lesson for her. This is life.
    Next time she won't be so easy I assure you.
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    If she had sex after 3 weeks then she was raised incorrectly. Or she has other issues that she needs escape from.

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