From what I heard, you were given the choice on who sees your real name and who sees your psn id. If thats the case, then all my real life buds will get my real name and my random interweb buds can get my shepard id
Hopefully you can do it like that, by each person. But I fear it'll be more 'friends list, friends of friends, all' kinda option.
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