[QUOTE="Dave-The-Rave, post: 5734978]lol, not really..I used to fret a lot too, but I've found out that the more casual you are to the situation the easier it is.
I'm a total idiot with girls sometimes, was at a houseparty a couple of weeks ago..when I was walking home one of the girls called out to me wanting my number, I thought it was innocent so I gave it. Then she said she would come round to mine in a bit. :lol: I didn't realise til she said that.
I felt bad then, cause I wasn't into her that way..so I had to politely say no when she texted 10 minutes later.
Now you're just humble bragging.
[QUOTE="F34R, post: 5734982]Ask them out without them realizing you're asking them out. It's brilliant.
Show interest in the girl, and hopefully she'll return the sentiment. Then, seriously, just ask her out. It's that simple. It really is. I mean, you can go all fancy, try some tricks, etc., but nothing gets to the point better than just asking the girl out. It really does help if they actually know you, but from my experience that isn't always necessary lol.[/QUOTE]
This is good advice.
At the end of the day, it's best not to complicate it. Just go out and ask. Worse thing she cab say is 'no'.
Trust me, it's a good idea to build up this practice as early as possible. I have a few friends who are 21 years+ that still lack the balls to even just ask.
Best thing to do is to get over the fear of rejection and to learn to just move on.