Just for the record, if you're 'friendzoned' that means very little. I am currently dating my best friend and she is absolutely amazing. Continue to try and impress her, make her feel special and if it was meant to happen it will. The 'friendzone' is better than starting a relationship and find out you have sweet fuck all in common (Which sadly my friend will probably happen to you for the next 6 years)
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[QUOTE="wesmore24, post: 5763268]well, i took some ones advice of befriending her friends...but now a few of them like me. and i dont like the girl that i was gonna ask out anymore. So for now im done.[/QUOTE]
So just have a free-for-all with her homegirls on a weekend. Sounds like a championship win to me!
So just have a free-for-all with her homegirls on a weekend. Sounds like a championship win to me!
[QUOTE="wesmore24, post: 5763268]well, i took some ones advice of befriending her friends...but now a few of them like me. and i dont like the girl that i was gonna ask out anymore. So for now im done.[/QUOTE]
ROFL, now you are in it. Now you are friends with her friends as well as her (I think) and soon you will probably be friends with her friends, friends. No doubt that you will have quite a few girlfriends in your time
ROFL, now you are in it. Now you are friends with her friends as well as her (I think) and soon you will probably be friends with her friends, friends. No doubt that you will have quite a few girlfriends in your time
[QUOTE="wesmore24, post: 5764429]lol you guys are hilarious . I'm probably gonna ask one of them out in a few days. I was thinking around valentines day, but thats a little too late.[/QUOTE]
I've always thought asking a girl out on valentines day was a bit cheesy myself. Look flowers and chocolate! Too cliche for me. Good luck with asking one of them out...or two..........or three........or ten.
. I'm probably gonna ask one of them out in a few days. I was thinking around valentines day, but thats a little too late.[/QUOTE]I've always thought asking a girl out on valentines day was a bit cheesy myself. Look flowers and chocolate! Too cliche for me. Good luck with asking one of them out...or two..........or three........or ten.
[QUOTE="Dave-The-Rave, post: 5734978]lol, not really..I used to fret a lot too, but I've found out that the more casual you are to the situation the easier it is.
I'm a total idiot with girls sometimes, was at a houseparty a couple of weeks ago..when I was walking home one of the girls called out to me wanting my number, I thought it was innocent so I gave it. Then she said she would come round to mine in a bit. :lol: I didn't realise til she said that.
I felt bad then, cause I wasn't into her that way..so I had to politely say no when she texted 10 minutes later. :snicker[/QUOTE]
Now you're just humble bragging.
:lol:
[QUOTE="F34R, post: 5734982]Ask them out without them realizing you're asking them out. It's brilliant.
Show interest in the girl, and hopefully she'll return the sentiment. Then, seriously, just ask her out. It's that simple. It really is. I mean, you can go all fancy, try some tricks, etc., but nothing gets to the point better than just asking the girl out. It really does help if they actually know you, but from my experience that isn't always necessary lol.[/QUOTE]
This is good advice.
At the end of the day, it's best not to complicate it. Just go out and ask. Worse thing she cab say is 'no'.
Trust me, it's a good idea to build up this practice as early as possible. I have a few friends who are 21 years+ that still lack the balls to even just ask.
Best thing to do is to get over the fear of rejection and to learn to just move on.
I'm a total idiot with girls sometimes, was at a houseparty a couple of weeks ago..when I was walking home one of the girls called out to me wanting my number, I thought it was innocent so I gave it. Then she said she would come round to mine in a bit. :lol: I didn't realise til she said that.
I felt bad then, cause I wasn't into her that way..so I had to politely say no when she texted 10 minutes later.
:snicker[/QUOTE]Now you're just humble bragging.
:lol:
[QUOTE="F34R, post: 5734982]Ask them out without them realizing you're asking them out. It's brilliant.
Show interest in the girl, and hopefully she'll return the sentiment. Then, seriously, just ask her out. It's that simple. It really is. I mean, you can go all fancy, try some tricks, etc., but nothing gets to the point better than just asking the girl out. It really does help if they actually know you, but from my experience that isn't always necessary lol.[/QUOTE]
This is good advice.
At the end of the day, it's best not to complicate it. Just go out and ask. Worse thing she cab say is 'no'.
Trust me, it's a good idea to build up this practice as early as possible. I have a few friends who are 21 years+ that still lack the balls to even just ask.
Best thing to do is to get over the fear of rejection and to learn to just move on.
I had it easy with my current girlfriend. I started hanging out with a new group of people, including a bunch of girls and my current girlfriend. Anyway, she told my best friend that she liked me. So the next time we went out to a bar, I made a move and viola! She ended up in my bed.
Also, over the last summer I used PlentyOfFish quite a bit for the first time, since I don't go out nearly as much when I'm back home in my boring town. That's a very easy way to meet girls as long as you have decent looks and can throw out a couple jokes.
Also, over the last summer I used PlentyOfFish quite a bit for the first time, since I don't go out nearly as much when I'm back home in my boring town. That's a very easy way to meet girls as long as you have decent looks and can throw out a couple jokes.
so when i'm trying to ask a girl out...
[QUOTE="x6Teen, post: 0]where's the pics maiiin?[/QUOTE]
instead of going up to random girl "A" at the bar i try to do it at a place were random....
[QUOTE="Ixion, post: 5770264]Only you would be requesting pics of 14 year old girls. :lol:[/QUOTE]
wait what the hell???
[QUOTE="x6Teen, post: 0]where's the pics maiiin?[/QUOTE]
instead of going up to random girl "A" at the bar i try to do it at a place were random....
[QUOTE="Ixion, post: 5770264]Only you would be requesting pics of 14 year old girls. :lol:[/QUOTE]
wait what the hell???
[QUOTE="Ixion, post: 5770255]I had it easy with my current girlfriend. I started hanging out with a new group of people, including a bunch of girls and my current girlfriend. Anyway, she told my best friend that she liked me. So the next time we went out to a bar, I made a move and viola! She ended up in my bed.
Also, over the last summer I used PlentyOfFish quite a bit for the first time, since I don't go out nearly as much when I'm back home in my boring town. That's a very easy way to meet girls as long as you have decent looks and can throw out a couple jokes.[/QUOTE]
Don't flatter yourself :snicker
Also, over the last summer I used PlentyOfFish quite a bit for the first time, since I don't go out nearly as much when I'm back home in my boring town. That's a very easy way to meet girls as long as you have decent looks and can throw out a couple jokes.[/QUOTE]
Don't flatter yourself :snicker
